The person in your life who is able to push the button that sends you in a frenzy (angry), but somebody else press the same button you could respond with love, but that person pushes the button and off you go, your ego instantly enters into it and you need to make them wrong. This could be your one of your children or spouse or ex-spouse or dad or mom or in-laws or sister or brother or friend or anyone, or it could be a stranger. This is the divine master who showed up in your life, you should be kneeling down and thank & honour them for teaching you the lesson. Maybe your ego will have tough time with this. LOL. What is actually happening in this moment? Here is someone teaching you that you have not mastered yourself yet. That is your soul mate. That is the person, that you need to be able to send love from a peaceful inner expression, that says I could choose peace, instead of this. And when you are in the relationship with that person, and they push the button, and you are able to be at peace, truly at peace, not acting, and send love for them. And that is true compassion.
When you have the choice to be right or to be kind, you pick kind. Higher part (sub-conscious mind) of you says, 'be at peace', when you are at peace you respond with kindness and ego (conscious mind) says, 'be right', it is much more important to be right. I can be kind rather than be right in most of the time in my life, still truly trying my best to be all the time, if you just get out of it, you just transform the relationship. And it doesn't take two people to transform it, forget that. The minute you say that I do it, but they don't, then again it is your ego says that it doesn’t work. How people treat you is their karma, how you respond is yours. And so you make that choice, and if that choice to be kind is continuingly, remove yourself from the relationship kindly with love. The paradigm is getting out of tribal conscious that being right is more important than being kind. Please read and reread until you get this essence in your heart (sub conscious mind).
Enjoy your weekend. Love Awesome.
